Can I ever lose the weight?!

You need to adjust your expectations. Weight training is NOT going to give you immediate results. In fact, weight training might be the slowest track (however the most effective and long term solution) to losing weight. My experience so far, is that I've lost about 4 pounds a month (or one pound a week). In the first couple of weeks, depending on when you weight yourself, the change is so MICROSCOPIC, that it can even be demoralizing. The reason is that weight training (in addition to cardio and diet changes) is going to turn some of your FAT into MUSCLE!! Muscle weights MORE than fat, so your actual weight is a BAD INDICATOR OF PROGRESS. You will EVENTUALLY lose weight, but it will be a slow transition. You must account for the body changes in other ways to see how successful you are. I recommend using the body measurements as well. Measure your waistline, hips, as well as your biceps, chest, and and thighs. If your a woman you will SEE your waistline, hips and t