Trying to get a FRESH start!

Hi my name is Dawn! I just recently had back surgery and then 2 days before Christmas and only one week after my back surgery I had to go have my pacemaker replaced. Needless to say, I have been very depressed about the way I look and feel and need to do something about it! My current weight is the heaviest I have every been (even when I was pregnant I was never this big) and I really need to finally stop feeling sorry for myself, get tough and start doing something about it for me! My husband was overweight a while ago and started a workout program that has completely transformed his entire life (along with a great body) and a lot of people ask me why don't I do what your husband is doing or have your husband train you since he trains others to transform their life into something wonderful, and my answer is that I really want to try to do this for me, myself and I ! I want to show him that I can do it to without his help (and also would like to save my marriage through this entire process, i.e., no fighting or arguing on what I'm doing right or wrong, etc, etc, etc.)

Would love to find a good support group on here to help keeping me motivated and on track! So if you have any good workout suggestions for somebody that just had back surgery, please drop me a line and let me know!